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Fourteenth Annual Edith I. Spivack Symposium
Sponsored by Committee on Women in the Law
Perfecting “The Ask”: How To Ask For What You Want
And Get It – For Your Client And For Yourself

January 23, 2018 | New York Hilton Midtown | NYC

6.0 Total Credits: 2.5 Ethics | 1.5 Skills | 2.0 Professional Practice (Transitional)

Program | 9:00 a.m. to 4:15 p.m.
Beekman Room, 2nd floor
Award Luncheon | 1:15 p.m. to 2:15 p.m.
Nassau Room, 2nd floor
Networking Reception | 4:15 – 5:30 p.m.
Clinton Room, 2nd floor

Susan L. Harper, Esq., Bates Group LLC, NJ

Terri A. Mazur, Esq., NYC
Carol C. Villegas, Esq., Labaton Sucharow LLP, NYC


The Program is co-sponsored by Labaton Sucharow LLP, Morrison Cohen LLP, NYSBA Antitrust Law Section, NYSBA Commercial and Federal Litigation Section, Bates Group LLC, The Garden City Group, Precision Discovery, and U.S. Legal Support.
Kay Murray Award

Asking for new business, more money, or to be the lead attorney on a deal or a case can be a challenge. But the only way to get what you want (and what you deserve) is to ask for it. Whether you’re a litigator, a transactional attorney, in-house counsel, or in the public sector, we all share the same struggle – knowing the right way to ask for something so that we’re set up for success. This Annual Meeting Program brings together the best and the brightest lawyers and judges who have succeeded in their fields because they had the courage and the skill to ask for the things that got them ahead. This program will examine implicit bias and discrimination in the legal industry and the unique obstacles women attorneys face impacting their practice of law and their career advancement. Using the recent report by the NYSBA Commercial and Federal Litigation Section addressing gender disparity in the courtroom as a springboard, the program will examine how navigating “The Ask” has manifested in a lack of participation by women at various levels of the legal profession – not only in law firms, but in public and private legal departments and institutions.  The program will also examine potential ethical pitfalls that can arise from the pursuit of business and conflicts, as well as the line between persuasion and unethical behavior, to make sure that what you’re asking for from prospective clients, current clients, other lawyers and in your work is ethical. We will also examine how to address retaliation. Finally, the program will provide the practical skills you need to overcome bias in the workplace and prepare yourself to make “The Ask” to benefit your clients’ interests and your professional success.

9:00 – 9:20 a.m. Registration

9:20 – 9:30 a.m. Opening Remarks: Susan L. Harper, Esq., Managing Director NY/NJ, Bates Group LLC and Chair, NYSBA Committee on Women in the Law

9:30 – 9:55 a.m. Keynote Speech: “If Not Now, When?” NYSBA Commercial and Federal Litigation Section’s Task Force Report On Achieving Equality For Women Attorneys In The Courtroom And In ADR.

Despite graduating law school at rates nearly equal or equal to their male counterparts for decades, female attorneys still comprise just 25.2% of the attorneys appearing in commercial and criminal cases in state and federal courtrooms across New York State. That number drops to 19.5% in cases involving complex commercial litigation. These numbers are striking. Retired United States District Court Judge Shira A. Scheindlin – who is now a mediator and arbitrator with JAMS and Of Counsel at Stroock & Stroock & Lavan LLP – will discuss the findings of the recent report on gender equity in courts prepared by a Task Force of the NYSBA’s Commercial and Federal Litigation Section. She will discuss the reasons for the shocking gender disparity described in the report and the history of efforts to understand and correct this phenomenon. Judge Scheindlin will also address how women lawyers can better position themselves to seek – and to ask for – opportunities to propel their careers forward and upward, and to ask others to help them. This compelling keynote speech will also examine how concrete efforts from law firms, clients, and the judiciary are needed to effect a sea change in the opportunities for women at the highest levels of law. Finally, the Judge will share with you her own story – her “Asks” along the way, and how you can ask for what you deserve on your path to success.

Keynote Speaker:
Honorable Shira A. Scheindlin (retired), United States District Court, Southern District of New York; Of Counsel, Stroock & Stroock & Lavan LLP; Mediator and Arbitrator for JAMS, NYC

9:55 – 11:10 a.m. Getting Ahead: Perfecting Your “Ask” To Succeed Professionally
You work really hard, but you’re just not advancing in your career, not landing the big clients, and not being chosen to lead the important deal or cases. All too often, we think that if we work hard and do all that is asked of us, we will be chosen for promotion and given the opportunities we want. But one reason why people do not get what they want and deserve is that they have not asked. Asking for something you want an deserve in your career can be challenging. Simply put – it can be hard to ask. This panel examines the reasons why it can be difficult for us to ask for things that will result in career advancement, including in the handling of transactions and litigation. The accomplished attorneys on this panel, including the author of the book “The Ask,” will provide concrete strategies and practical skills to help advance you professionally, including how to effectively ask for business; to be the lead on a matter, team or in management; and for increased compensation. The panelists will also discuss how and why they have asked for advancement along the way, and share personal examples of successful techniques and those to avoid. Our goal is to have you leave this CLE panel confident in how to ask for advancement in your career – whatever that may mean for you!

Honorable Darcel Clark, Bronx County District Attorney, New York

Laura Fredricks, Esq., CEO, Founder and Author of “The Ask”; Former Deputy Attorney General IV, Civil Litigation, Commonwealth of Pennsylvania
Damaris Hernández, Esq., Partner, Cravath, Swaine & Moore LLP, NYC
Carla Miller, Esq., Vice President, Business & Legal Affairs, Universal Music Group, NYC

Panel Chairs:
Frettra M. de Silva, Esq., Head, Legal, Transaction Banking, Americas, Standard Chartered Bank, NYC
Sheryl B. Galler, Esq., Law Office of Sheryl B. Galler; NYC

11:10 – 11:25 a.m. Break

11:25 – 1:05 p.m. Leveling the Playing Field: Addressing Institutional and Implicit Bias and Identifying Opportunities for Women’s Participation and Success

Perfecting your “Ask” is important, but for women to get ahead, legal institutions have to foster an environment that gets you from “The Ask to a “Yes!” In order for women attorneys to progress in law firms, legal departments, the public sector, and in the judiciary, institutions must put in place formal and informal mechanisms to inspire, encourage, and reward “The Ask.” The second panel brings together leaders from top law firms, the judiciary, the public sector, and the corporate world who will examine implicit bias issues in legal institutions. The second panel will also discuss steps legal institutions have already taken to foster a culture of inclusion and to provide an environment that sponsors women leaders. The panelists will address strategies legal institutions can adopt and implement to combat institutional bias and increase the number of women in leadership roles.

Carrie H. Cohen, Esq., Partner, Morrison & Foerster LLP; former Assistant United States Attorney in the Southern District of New York, NYC
Magistrate Judge Marilyn Go, United States District Court for the Eastern District of New York
Shira Nadich Levin, Esq., Partner, Cooley LLP; Co-Chair of The Cooley’s Women’s Initiative, NYC
Sheila Murphy, Esq., Senior Vice President & Associate General Counsel, MetLife, NYC

Panel Chairs:
Laura Sulem, Esq., Director, Litigation at Practical Law, Thomson Reuters, NYC
Carol C. Villegas, Esq., Partner, Labaton Sucharow LLP, NYC

1:05 – 1:15 p.m. Break

1:15 – 2:15 p.m. Luncheon and Presentation of Kay Crawford Murray Award
Remarks: Sharon Stern Gerstman, Esq., President, New York State Bar Association
Honorable Kathleen Courtney Hochul, Lieutenant Governor, State of New York

2:15 – 2:30 p.m. Break

2:30 – 4:10 p.m. “The Ask” In Action – Ethics And Other Dilemmas

We have all thought long and hard about what to say, what not to say, and how to present our best self when we appear in court, in a deal negotiation or in a meeting with a senior partner. What about the ethics involved in “The Ask?” Where is the line between persuasion and unethical behavior? How do we handle conflicts between client representation and negotiations? How do you address retaliatory behavior? These an other issues will be examined by the third panel. Utilizing several scenarios, the panel will show the good, the bad, and the ugly when making “The Ask.” Our ethics expert will provide commentary on what ethical lines have been crossed and authority and guidance under the rules o professional conduct. The panelists will also provide coaching advice to see if we can change the outcome in these scenarios and make sure your “Ask” is ethical as well as effective.

Amelia Choyne, Esq., Partner, Aaronson Rappaport Feinstein & Deutsch, LLP
Karen Grottalio, Esq., Partner, Heidell, Pittoni, Murphy & Bach, LLP
Deborah A. Scalise, Esq., Partner, Scalise & Hamilton, LLP
Jason Turken,Esq., Founding Partner, Turken & Heath, LLP
Stephen Zweig, Esq., Partner, FordHarrison LLP

Panel Chairs:
Kathleen A. Lyons, Esq., Vice President, Property & Casualty Business Management, Swiss Re America Holding Corporation
Rosary A. Morelli, Esq., Partner, Morelli & Lasalle, LLP, NYC

4:10 – 4:15 p.m. Closing Remarks

4:15 – 5:30 p.m. Women’s Networking Reception: CWIL Exhibit Commemorating the New York Centennial Anniversary of
Women’s Suffrage

Reception Remarks:
Susan L. Harper, Chair, NYSBA’s Committee on Women in the Law
Maureen Bezuhly, Chair, Best Practices Subcommittee of Committee on Women in the Law

Networking Reception Co-Sponsored by Labaton Sucharow LLP, Morrison & Cohen, LLP, NYSBA Antitrust  Section, and Committee on Women in the Law

Under New York’s MCLE rule, this program has been approved for a total of 6.0 credit hours 2.5 Ethics, 1.5 Skills, 2.0 Professional Practice
Transitional. This program is transitional and is suitable for MCLE credit for both newly-admitted attorney and experienced attorneys.

NYSBA Member: $100
Commercial and Federal Litigation Section Member: $50
Young Lawyers Section Member: $50


Taking the Lead: Winning Strategies and Techniques for Commercial Cases

This program will showcase methods of creating compelling opening and closing statements and direct and cross-examinations of witnesses through a re-enactment of an actual commercial trial.

The re-enactment will feature experienced women trial lawyers, including former Commercial and Federal Litigation Section   Chairs presided over by a former federal judge. The trial will be followed by a  panel discussion and critique by sitting justices who will share their observations, advice, and insights.

This program promises to be both entertaining and instructive, offering critical trial skills for all litigators at any level of practice.

Sponsored by the Commercial and Federal Litigation Section  and by the Young Lawyers Section.

Monday, March 5, 2018
Live Program
5:30 p.m. - 7:10 p.m.

7:10 p.m. - 8:00 p.m.

Daniel Patrick Moynihan United States Courthouse
Ceremonial Courtroom
500 Pearl Street
New York, NY 10007-1312

2.0 MCLE Credits: 2.0 Skills

NYSBA Member: $100 | Non-Member: $200

Commercial and Federal Litigation Section Member: $50
Young Lawyers Section Member: $50


Program Moderator
Hon. Shira A. Scheindlin (Ret.)
 | Stroock & Stroock & Lavan LLP

Program Chair 
Lauren J. Wachtler, Esq. 
| Phillips Nizer LLP

Program Faculty 

Carrie H. Cohen, Esq. | Morrison & Foerster LLP
Tracee E. Davis, Esq. | Zeichner Ellman & Krause LLP
Lauren J. Wachtler, Esq. | Phillips Nizer LLP

Rachel M. Bandli, Esq. | Phillips Nizer LLP
Anne Marie Bowler, Esq. | Gabay-Rafiy & Bowler LLP
Amanda L. Gayer, Esq. | Morrison & Foerster LLP
Susie Kim, Esq. | Arent Fox LLP
Shira Sandler, Esq. | Greenberg Traurig LLP


Hon. Elizabeth Emerson
 | New York State Supreme Court, Suffolk County Commercial Division
Hon. Jed S. Rakoff | United States District Court for the Southern District of New York
Hon. Charles E. Ramos | New York State Supreme Court, New York County Commercial Division
Hon. Elizabeth A. Wolford | United States District Court for the Western District of New York

Learn more about the program faculty 
here .

Newly Admitted Attorneys: To receive skills credit, newly admitted attorneys must take accredited transitional CLE courses in traditional live classroom settings that have been approved by the CLE Board for use by newly admitted attorneys.  For more information about the CLE Rules, please go to .

Out of State Accreditation: This program has also been approved for MCLE credit by the State Bar of California, the Pennsylvania Continuing Legal Education Board and the Board of Continuing Legal Education of the State of New Jersey.  If you require MCLE credit in other states, we can provide you a Uniform MCLE Form.

Partial Credit for Program Segments Not Allowed: Under the New York State Continuing Legal Education Board Regulations and Guidelines, attendees at CLE programs cannot get MCLE credit for a program segment (typically, a lecture or panel, of which there are usually several in a program) unless they are present for the entire segment. Those who arrive late, depart early, or are absent for any portion of the segment WILL NOT receive credit for that program segment.

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March 21, 2018, 3-5:45 p.m. Albany Law School

(Registration & Light Refreshments at 2 p.m.)

CLE CREDIT: It is anticipated that 3 CLE credits will be awarded, including 1 credit to fulfill the new requirement for CLE in Diversity, Inclusion and Elimination of Bias, and 1 credit for ethics. No charge, due to the generosity of the co-sponsors.

REGISTRATION: Registration will be coordinated by the Albany County Bar Association.

For more details click here.

CWIL Group
About the Committee on Women in the Law

MISSION: Established in 1986, the Committee on Women in the Law is charged with the responsibility of identifying, studying and making recommendations to address gender bias and law-related issues affecting women. The Committee proposes legislation; the adoption and implementation of policy by the Executive Committee and House of Delegates of the New York State Bar Association; and other actions to ensure the fair treatment of women under law and the full participation of women in the administration of justice and as equal members of the legal community. The Committee is a standing committee of the Association as designated by the House of Delegates in 1989. The CWIL 2016-2017 programming year has come to a close. Read the 2016-2017 Year-End Summary here.

The Committee has presented educational forums on gender concerns; sexual harassment in the profession; balancing professional and family responsibilities; career development beyond partnerships; women in politics; seeking service on the bench; and breast cancer. Additionally, the Committee presents forums for women law students on career issues and opportunities.  

To provide recognition for exemplary achievement by a male or female member of the Association in addressing the concerns of women, an Association award was established in honor of the Committee's first Chair, Ruth G. Schapiro. The annual award was proposed and is administered by the Committee. The first recipient of this award in 1992 was The Honorable Judith S. Kaye. For more information about the Ruth G. Schapiro Memorial Award, click here.

To honor women in the profession who recognize the value of diversity in the legal profession and have dedicated their time to advancing the professional development of women attorneys, the Committee has established the Kay Crawford Murray Award. Future recipients will posses the following characteristics: A distinguished legal career or a rising star in the profession; An active member of bar associations for the purpose of advancing the professional and personal development of women attorneys; An active mentor to women attorneys. For more information about the Kay Crawford Murray Award, click here.

Please contact Kathleen Baxter, Committee on Women in the Law, NYSBA, One Elk Street, Albany, NY 12207; 518-463-3200.

bernicecomfedNYSBA House of Delegates Adopts Report of the Commercial and Federal Litigation Section 11/4/17
The House of Delegates approved the Commercial and Federal Litigation Section's report, "If Not Now, When? Achieving Equality for Women Attorneys in the Courtroom and in ADR" on November 4, 2017.
•Read the press release here.
• Watch the video here.

Judge Kaye PortraitJudge Judith Kaye Portrait Unveiled
On November 3, 2017, the New York State Bar Association unveiled a new painting of Hon. Judith S. Kaye, former chief of the state of New York, to be displayed in our Great Hall.

Suffragette Commemoration on Display at the Bar Center
Also, on display at the Bar Center is our "A Centennial Commemoration of Women's Suffrage and the Achievement of Legal Rights." View the slides here.

Check out our memorandum in support to amend the Executive Law in relation to prohibiting employers from seeking salary history from prospective employees.

Women Attorney Trailblazers in New York State

New York State has a rich history of amazing trailblazing women attorneys who broke through many barriers and blatant discrimination to make major contributions in the legal profession.  Their stories are ones of fierce determination, passion for the law, keen intelligence, and inspiring achievement.  

From the late 19th Century, when the first women gained admission to state bars, through the 1960s, women attorneys faced closed doors and discrimination.  Women have made tremendous strides in the past 40 years - in large part due to the efforts of women attorneys who overcame obstacles and blazed a path for other women attorneys to follow.  

The Committee on Women in the Law - whose first chair, Ruth Schapiro, was one of the women trailblazers at New York State Bar Association - is delighted to spotlight the lives and careers of 10 women lawyers who fought discrimination and gained a foothold in a range of legal careers. These women have paved the way for other women attorneys, serving as role models and, often, as mentors.

We hope that you will draw inspiration from the stories of these 10 remarkable New York attorneys.   


Maureen Bezuhly
Co-chair, Committee on Women in the Law Best Practices Subcommittee
New York City

Monica P. Ruela
Co-chair, Committee on Women in the Law Best Practices Subcommittee
New York City

Susan Harper
Chair, Committee on Women in the Law
New York City

Read the brochure here.